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Elaborating.. May 26, 2010

Filed under: Uncategorized — katshaver @ 12:55 pm

So after reading my last post, I felt like I should elaborate a little on the whole, us training Jenna to adapt to our lifestyle instead of us adapting to hers.  Tucker and I are ALWAYS on the go, we like to pick up and go if something fun comes our way.  As I said in the earlier post, we didn’t want to be prisoners in our own home and as I do believe in a routine/schedule, I didn’t believe that an hour by hour schedule was going to work for us like it does for so many others!   Jenna came to our couple’s shower a few days after she was brought home from the hospital.  She also went to restaurants and doctor’s appointments and even Target in the first few weeks she was alive!  *NOTE: For some reason, I didn’t take her to Wal-Mart until she was at least two months old maybe even older. :) I know I took her to Target, but for some reason Wal-Mart seems a little dirtier to me!! :)

With this being said,  the on the go baby works great with our family.  Jenna actually loves going to restaurants, bars, clubs, you name it! haha….. JUST KIDDING!!!  No really, she does love being out and about, much better than being at home all day.  It seems like everywhere we went early on people were asking us or rather telling us that Jenna must be our second baby.   The answer is obviously NO, as I am VERY protective over her, she is our first.  It just works for us to have her on our schedule!

One thing Jenna DOESN’T like is the car seat!  She hates being in the back seat all by herself.  She is a social baby (I have no clue where she gets that from) and loves to be entertained!  I think once we are able to let her ride facing forward she will like it better, but for now we have a cranky baby in the car unless she is WORN SLAP OUT!

 

And it begins…… May 25, 2010

Filed under: Uncategorized — katshaver @ 11:17 am

I want to do at least one post a month on Jenna and what she is doing and how she is growing.  I also want to share my favorite pictures of each month.  Since Jenna is now 4 1/2 months, I have some catching up to do.  I am going to start with day 1 to 4 weeks and do a month every week for 4 to 5  weeks and then I should be caught up.

So here we go:  Up to 4 weeks

I can’t express the emotions and changes that you will have after you have your first child.  You have to adjust to a new way of living and you slowly wonder how you ever survived without this beautiful bundle of joy that is your child.  You will go through many trials of how to handle parent your child.  If you are anything like me you will read books, read the internet, consult your mother, consult friends that just had babies,  consult doctors and nurses, but in the end you will come up with your own unique way of parenting that works for you and your child/children.  I always say, take all the advice you can get, but when it comes down to it you know your child the best and what will work best for you and your family.  Becoming a parent is such a wonderful experience, but no two parents are alike and no two babies are alike so you will do a lot of learning as you go!

Tucker and I decided early on that we were not going to let Jenna train us, but rather we would train her :)   We didn’t want to be prisoners of our own home so we decided that Jenna wouldn’t slow us down too much.  She would go where we went, learn our routine, and sleep when we slept.  HAHA, okay, I know the last one was a stretch, but I threw it in there anyway.  Jenna came home from the hospital on a Thursday, and as many of you already know, she was born 3 weeks early.  Well, we had some friends at the beach that were throwing us a couples shower that was supposed to be 2 weeks before Jenna made her arrival, well since she came 3 weeks early we weren’t quite sure what to do, but we decided to go to the shower with Jenna in tow!  Now, don’t judge me just yet.  Jenna slept just about the whole time while everyone ohhhed and ahhhhed. :)   Jenna didn’t stay more than a couple of hours before my mother took her home.  This was probably the hardest part for me so we left soon after!

Jenna has been a GREAT sleeper since the day we brought her home.  She only woke up once a night to eat and went straight back to sleep.  We were lucky, my mom stayed with us for the first few nights and since we weren’t breast feeding we were able to sleep as my gracious mother fed Jenna.  Seeing my mom go was probably the hardest part for Tucker! :)

Jenna’s first few weeks, she didn’t do all that much, she ate, she slept, she did what babies do!!  She did however, have LOTS of visitors.  Within weeks she met her Aunt Nini and Uncle John, Uncle Wilbur,  Aunt Jen and Uncle Mo, her 1st cousins and some of her second, her Great Aunt Suzie and many friends of her parents!  Of course she already met her Grandpa Stickney, Mimi,  Hollywood and Flash.

During her first 4 weeks, our biggest issue was finding the right formula.  We tried Enfamil and Similac and finally decided that Simalac Sensitive mixed with Similac Advance was the way to go.   She weighed 6lbs, 7oz at birth, but when she came home she was 6lbs, 1oz.  She didn’t gain above this until she was 2 weeks old.  Since then she has been growing like a WEED!!  Below are some of my favorite pictures of Jenna in her first 4 weeks:

First Day Home!!

Her first bath.

She has the Stickney crooked pinky!

Being Breech, she loved her feet up.

Her favorite bear that is almost as big as her!

 

Bad Blogger! May 10, 2010

Filed under: Uncategorized — katshaver @ 9:30 am

So, I know, I have been a TERRIBLE blogger!!   I can’t believe it has been so long since I last blogged!  SO much has been going on, I don’t even know where to start.  I guess I can start with Jenna:

  • Jenna is now 4 months, yes, 4 MONTHS OLD!! (May 4, 2010)  I still can’t believe she is getting so big so fast!  She is the highlight of our lives and we often wonder how we ever survived without her.  I am going to have to do an update on all of her milestones and of course pictures!! :)
  • Tucker and I celebrated our 2 year anniversary on April 5, 2010.  My brother Will was so sweet to come and babysit for us so we could have a nice dinner out.  We have also been working like crazy and moving ( I will elaborate later on this) and of course enjoying every minute we have with our Sweet Jenna!
  • I have my 10 year high school reunion coming up and I am still trying to fathom being old enough to be out of high school for 10 years.
  • My best friend and also the God Mother of Jenna is getting married in August and I am having a BALL planning all of her showers and parties!  I swear sometimes I think I should have been some sort of planner :) I couldn’t be happier for Jessica Schober.  She has found her match, someone that couldn’t be more perfect for her,  Michael Reed.  She deserves all the happiness in the world!!  Jessica and I have been friends for a VERY long time (16 years give or take) and we understand each other probably better than anyone else because we are A LOT alike (of course I am the nicer one:) ).  I am honored to be her Matron of Honor and can’t wait to call her a Reed!! Congratulations Jessica, I LOVE YOU!
  • I am enjoying photography even more now that I have a cute little subject to take pictures of all day every day!!  Photography is my passion even though it took me 25 years or so to figure it out!! :)
  • I celebrated my FIRST Mother’s Day yesterday (May 9, 2010) and I couldn’t have asked for a better day!  I have a very loving, supportive, caring husband that never lets me forget that I am a wonderful wife and mother, and yesterday was no exception.  I woke up to wheat pancakes and Nassau Grits (my favorite breakfast) and flowers!  This really wasn’t much different than any other Sunday (my favorite day of the week), but this Sunday I was definitely not counting calories!! :)   Usually, Tucker makes me a relatively healthy breakfast, but Mother’s Day was the exception.  After breakfast, Jenna and I took a nap together and then we ate a very late lunch/dinner at Sunset Grill in Perdido Key!  My new FAVORITE place!!  I will have to show you my gift a little later, I am so excited to share it with everyone!!
  • Happy Mother’s Day to my mother as well!  I wouldn’t be the person I am today without her!!  She is the BEST mom a daughter could ever dream of.  They say you will never know how much your mother loves you until you become a mother and that is SO true!!  I just want to thank her for always being my best friend, my confidant, my supporter, for letting me know I can achieve anything that I want if I want it bad enough,  for giving me that kick in the butt when I needed it the most,  for always being there when I need to talk, for raising me to be the woman that I have become!  Thank you MOM, I love you more than you will EVER know!
  • So, I don’t know if anyone has heard, haha, but there is something in the Gulf that resembles oil.  Oh wait, it is OIL!!!!  The BP catastrophe is affecting everyone on the Gulf Coast.  Fortunately, God is looking out for us and providing us with weather that is keeping it away longer and longer.  I now think that the worst part of the oil is going to hit the Louisiana and Mississippi Coast.  Please keep them in your prayers as well as us because we won’t know the extent of the damage until it hits!  One of the worst things you can do is cancel your vacations!! WE need you!  As of now, our beaches are white and beautiful waiting for tourists to play on them.
  • This has become more of a random post, but I didn’t know how else to do it!! :)   I will post more about each random thought later.  I can’t wait to share pictures of Jenna!  She is our angel!!
  • I hope all the mothers out there had a GREAT Mother’s Day!
 

 
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